My family and I got to spend all of July in an area of Texas along the Rio Grande Valley. We served a mission church there and came back profoundly changed. A month in a coastal town did wonders for my outlook on life, but not for the reasons you’d think. It wasn’t lack of work. My husband still preached every Sunday, led Bible study and prayer groups, elders and board meetings. I still had laundry for five, a house to clean and three kids to keep one step ahead of. To save money, we didn’t eat out until the family came to visit, so there were still dinners to make. We still stuck to a reasonable, although not as strict, schedule. So what was so different there? How does the beach mindset translate to life in one of the biggest metropolitan in the country? In the next few blog entries, I’ll be exploring the lessons we learned about work, family, nature and God.
My first lesson came five days into the month: setbacks do not mean you are not following
God’s plan for your life.
Although I grew up on the Gulf of Mexico, I never had the
chance to watch newly hatched Ridley sea turtles crawl to the ocean. One morning before dawn the entire family
headed out to the beach to watch these two-inch creatures crawl to the vast ocean. I was prepared to be in awe of God’s creation,
but I thought it would be a simple, short event. Let the creatures go. Their instinct kicks in, they crawl to the
ocean, and catch a wave into the rest of their lives. Except that doesn’t nearly describe the battle
these tiny creatures endure.
This truly surprised me.
Why is it so hard for them? If
God made sea turtles to hatch on land and make their way to sea to survive, why
is the journey so difficult? Even without
human involvement, this is the classic uphill battle.
Sound like modern life.
The more you try, the harder it gets.
Life is hard. Marriage is
hard. Raising children who are anchored
in Christ is hard. No one doubts
that. But why does it get harder the
more we try to follow God’s plan for our lives?
That’s a little more difficult.
This is where the turtle cannot do something we as humans
do. The turtle cannot ask whether all
these setbacks and obstacles mean God doesn’t want the turtle to crawl to the
sea at all. When it comes to the
specific will of God, sometimes we misinterpret the setbacks and pitfalls for
God’s warnings. After all, if God truly
wanted us to reach out to that family in need or start leading family devotions
or spend some time helping others or lead a Bible study, wouldn’t He get rid of
the roadblocks? Stop the car from
breaking down, make sure the money to do it is there, make a blank spot appear
in our calendar? Just part the obstacles
like He did for Moses and the Red Sea?
Maybe this is God’s way of telling us we are going down the wrong path.
Yes, sometimes God immediately, decisively sweeps away every
roadblock in the way so that we can fulfill His will. Yet the Bible also gives us plenty of other
stories where things get harder before they get better. Think about all the years David spent running
from Saul. Samuel had clearly pronounced
God’s will that David lead Israel as rightful king. So why didn’t God make it easy for David to
take the throne? Why did he have to spend
so many years running, and shed so much blood when a simple well-timed heart
attack sent from God would have prevented so much destruction? Or think about Gideon. He finally finds the courage to follow God
and strike down altars to idols and free his people from oppressive Midian
bullies and what does he get for his efforts?
Criticism from just about everyone he knows. (Judges 7-9) For most of
our Biblical heroes, the decision to obey God brought more hardship and
setbacks than miraculously delivered moments.
On the beach that morning I learned something. God designed Ridley sea turtles to crawl to
the ocean in their tiniest, most fragile state.
Yet He chooses not to make the journey easy for them, not to remove the fierce
waves and predators all around. Same for
you and I. God made us to do certain
things to glorify Him. The roadblocks
and set backs are not signs that God wants us to stop what we’re doing. Sometimes they are signs that we just need to
swim harder and expect a few more waves.
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